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Baby Boomer generation – Finding Financial Independence and Retire With a Work From Home Business

another member of the Baby Boomer generation, I have long and hard, how to find financial independence I thought I would need to retire. I found that a Work From Home business in internet marketing gives me the financial independence I have been looking for.

I find myself in awe of the fact that I have only one day to the 76 million baby boomers who are now planning to retire. How can Social Security and savings bring financial independence to the continually growing number? For the Baby Boomer generation, a Work From Home Business is the perfect answer for the search for financial independence and be put to rest turmoiled in today’s economy. A Work From Home business could very well a full-time income while working only part-time hours. This gives you peace of mind to retire and have time to enjoy life and not worry about finances.

At present there are now more than 34 million retired Americans. With the Baby Boomer generation now looking to retire, that number will swell to 69.4 million by 2030. As investments plummet and the shear size of the baby boomers reaching retirement age the squeeze on Social Security, a Work From Home Business will provide the financial independence and ease of mind necessary to enter retirement, or possibly even Retire early.

Retirement is a stage of life, the first invisioned to last 3-5 years. With today’s efforts in health and medicine, an individual can realistically expect that 20 to 30 years after living in retirement. Retirement The current model is not realistic for the future or even now.

The future is now. The current retirement model is not realistic. A joint study from Cornell University and Washington concluded that 64 percent of retirees depend on Social Security for half or more of their income, 29 percent rely on them to 90 percent of their income, 18 percent rely on them for their entire income. The researchers also say that through age 75, almost one quarter of the elderly is experienced poverty, and the proportion increases as one ages. The outlook for the baby-boomer generation want to Retire looks bleak.

. Still further, tradition, custom, business and political interests, attitudes about life-form after age sixty-five.

At the age of 50 years, an accelerating number of media messages mean the end is near for the baby boomers. Solicitations to join AARP, dire warnings about inescapable health problems and pitfalls of aging are relentless remember that life is breaking up and it’s time to let go of everyday life. And why not you deserve, you deserve it, and you are entitled to retirement, even if it affects the quality of life.

you might think that you are entitled to Retire, but it is more than most people realize traumatic. It is on a life of closure of the effort, into which you poured your heart and soul. Would you sit back and vegetate in your deck chair, memories of the times when “you” was one of the makers with the status of the economy, while all you have worked for your whole life, slowly fading away?

I say “No ” . Now is the time to be proactive. Start your new career thinking to set your sites on new goals. This could happen to you very easily, with very little time and effort working from home in Internet Marketing. This gives the baby-boomer generation, the financial independence they need to go comfortably in retirement.

Remember, the choice for every day of your life in a state of youthful growth instead of paralyzing live simply forego retirement to be outstanding on it. Be in this growing number of baby boomers who are happy, healthy and productive and in the fulfillment of Second Life.

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Going Home Again: Family Communication Tips For Adults

Going Home Again: Family Communication Tips for Adults

You’re an adult now – really you are! Your employer thinks you’re an adult. Your friends have no doubts about your age and adulthood. You pay your bills, maintain a busy calendar, negotiate your rent or mortgage, and accomplish other “adult” tasks. And – most of the time – you actually believe you are an adult…

Then the phone rings, there’s a knock at the door or you are in the process of honorably fulfilling that adult responsibility – a visit to your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins or other extended family members – and suddenly you seem to shrink to small-child stature. While the law says you officially became an adult at a specific age, you may not really feel “grown up” until several years later. But, someone forgot to tell your family! Your parents (and others who saw you grow up) still see you as a child. You are still, to your family, a kid. No matter how successful you are, your family may have a tough time forging a new relationship – with the adult you now are. That’s normal and happens to most of us. 

But, another thing happens in families. Over the years, family members develop and rehearse – over and over – a family script. Each person has a role and is expected by others to be consistent in acting out the lines dictated by that role. You might have had the experience of predicting what your parent will say before the words actually can be heard. However, when one person significantly changes the script, everyone else is likely to be surprised and to try mightily to get the offender back on track.

For example, maybe you were always considered the shy, quiet one – the one who would just go along, rather than make waves. But, that’s not the adult you now are. You’ve learned how to be assertive and have (mostly) overcome that shyness. So – you go home and try that new assertive you on your family. You’ve now tweaked that script and changed the rules – without telling anyone. You probably won’t much like your family’s response, as they try to get back the child they once knew – the one who doesn’t cause such problems. 

The harder your family works at getting back the old you, the more likely it is that they will be successful. That is, unless you know how to educate your family about the person you’ve become. If you don’t, you will probably leave each of these interactions feeling, once again, like the child you thought you’d left behind. You might feel guilty at having contributed to the family discord, angry at being discounted, frustrated at “failing” one more time with your family or just sad that the progress you thought you’d made seems to have disappeared – at least, for now.  

The bottom line may be that what could have been a pleasant, non-conflicted interaction has now turned into the “same old thing” you went through as a child. And you may end up (no matter what age you now are) needing some time and help to feel, once again, like the competent adult you really are. 

Keep reading if you’d like some tips for dealing with those family communication challenges.

12 TIPS FOR MORE EFFECTIVE ADULT FAMILY COMMUNICATION

 1 – Remind yourself (often!) that it’s normal for your family to forget that you are an adult!

 2 – Prepare for phone calls and visits, so that you don’t have to improvise on the spot.

 3 – Make a list of the positive characteristics of the mature person you now are. Include the tasks of adulthood – especially those you think your family doesn’t recognize in you. For example, a list might include items such as these: financially responsible, good parent, successful at living independently, stable friends, able to speak up when necessary, etc.

 4 – Include on your list, even the small positives in your life, such as paying off a small debt, telling a friend something difficult, etc.

 5 – Write each item on a small card, to review when you need reminders of who you’ve become.

 6 – Take some alone time (before a phone call or visit) to remember your successes – and how good that feels. Notice your body probably feels different and less tense, when you stay in touch with the competent, confident you. Remember that feeling – you’ll need it later.

 7 – Practice using positive self-talk, using your cards if necessary, to get back the good feeling that comes from remembering your successes.

 8 – Before each interaction with a potentially problematic family member, use that self-talk and the remind yourself of how confident and competent you really are in most of your life. If anything happens in a conversation to cause you to revert to that child-like feeling, excuse yourself for a minute (bathroom visit, urgent phone call, etc.), and use that time to read those cards! Then return to the conversation.

 9 – Don’t change the rules, alter the script, without telling the other person. If they don’t expect something different, they’ll work even harder to get things back to “normal.”

10 – You might want to try this format for explaining your changes to your family: First, acknowledge what is happening. Then explain what you want or plan on doing.

11 – Include some version of appreciation for their efforts in each statement.

12 – Try something like this to announce a rules change: “I know I’m sounding a little different (acknowledgement), but I’d really appreciate it if you’d hear me out on this (what you want).” Or, “I know you’re concerned about me (acknowledgement) and I really appreciate that. I promise to let you know if I need some help (what you plan on doing).”

These are only a few strategies for more effective communication with your family. If you’d like some help figuring out why you’re having such a tough time with your family, and if you would like to develop a more extended “tool-box” of strategies for more effective communication with family members, this might be the time to seek out some professional help. I offer consultation and counseling – and a free phone consultation to help you figure out what your next step should be. Give me a call now at 310 475-1759 or visit my website for more information.

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Christian Home Schooling, Family Values, and Politics

As the political season is in full swing, it appears obvious that this is going to be one of the most intense and highly debated political races that the United States has seen in a long time. On the Republican side, Senator John McCain is the inevitable candidate, having knocked Mitt Romney and Rudy Giuliani out of the race while still competing with former Arkansas governor Mike Huckabee, who is refusing to drop out of the race. Democrats Hillary Clinton and Barak Obama are now in a heated battle for the nomination as North Carolina Senator, John Edwards has dropped out.

As the party conventions approach, it seems like every special interest group imaginable is throwing their hat into the ring to either throw support behind a like-minded candidate, or to challenge the politics of a candidate that they believe particularly threatens their agenda. I heard an interesting discussion on the radio recently concerning Mike Huckabee’s endorsement by a Christian home school group who believes that the former governor’s evangelical Christian background (he’s a former Baptist minister) makes him their candidate of choice.

Christian home schooling is becoming a very popular form of education across America, particularly for evangelicals who see it as a way to ensure that their children receive only influences that they deem to be appropriate. Furthermore, the Christian home school agenda allows family bonds to be strengthened as children spend more time in the home where family-based activities can be encouraged. Additionally, parents are able to have a much bigger hand in the home school curriculum of their children.

While there are obvious arguments for and against the lifestyle of Christian home schooling, neither the pros nor the cons should be considered out of context. The benefits, including the increase in family and personal values, the ability to move at a quicker pace, and the ability to more closely control your child’s home school curriculum are very strong endorsements for homeschooling.

While the potential for homeschooled children’s social skills could be a deterrent from some parents, there are numerous social groups available for homeschooled children that were not available several years ago. Additionally, church and community activities, such as boy scouts and girl scouts can help nurture a child’s social life.

Obviously homeschooling isn’t the epitome of family values, but it certainly does help in a society such as ours to instill stronger families and thus stronger citizens. That being said, there are certainly many additional factors that we should all consider when selecting our next President.